A Mom of Two.

Being a Mom of 2 is so rewarding…Yet so hard. Ha! The past couple of weeks have gone by in a blur and I can’t believe little Bennett is almost 3 weeks old already. This morning I had some prayer time in the car (so needed) and I have been realizing over the past couple of days that this life, this crazy busy, boy-driven life of mine is a gift the Lord has given me. Seems easy to process, right?! Also easy to lose sight of. This is my family. These are His children that He gave to Brian and I to raise. He is honoring us with their life. Wow! When I think of the magnitude of that I am in awe. Yes, it has been an adjustment. Definitely. But my motto right now is that soon this life will be my ‘new normal’ and I won’t know any differently. I don’t wish away these moments, or at least I don’t try to, but I love the glimpses in my day when I feel caught up. When I feel a bit more normal. Like yesterday. And today. Everyday is getting better and better. I know there will be those days – ahh, those days when time could not go faster until you hear your husband pull in the driveway – but right now I am doing my best to soak in BOTH of my boys and love ’em up as much as I can. I was thinking of things I wanted to remember during this time – and I started making a list – something I wish I would have had handed to me as I walked out of the hospital and into this new life. Some are funny…some are serious…all are true.

What I’ve learned in 2 weeks as a Mom of 2.

  • there is nothing sweeter than a newborn in your arms. the smell of them. the softness of them. the teeny-tininess of them.
  • life as the 3 of you is gone. your toddler feels it. you feel it. your husband feels it.
  • being a mom of 2 is a balancing act. one that doesn’t come with instructions. you have to figure it out for yourself.
  • I ask for grace daily.
  • baby needs you constantly. your husband handles the toddler most of the time while you’re getting used to having a newborn around again.
  • when your husband comes home from work, YOU spend time with your toddler. he misses his mommy.
  • ‘tickle’ your newborn with your toddler. read to him. do things with your baby that your toddler enjoys so he can help and watch.
  • don’t try on your pre-prego pants in the first 2 weeks post-delivery
  • remember your hormones are CrAZy…cut yourself some slack!
  • both children can have your attention at the same time. try to include your toddler in feeding times, or have him ‘help’ you change baby’s diaper. another tip i learned: have a box/bag of toys that your toddler can only play with while you’re nursing. gives them something to look forward to the countless times a day you’re feeding your newborn!
  • let people help you! when they offer, accept!
  • cereal is just fine for dinner.
  • laundry can wait.
  • cleaning can wait.
  • sleep when your toddler sleeps!
  • remember that this is a season – a season that goes by way too quickly.
  • smile. everyday.
  • laugh with your toddler.
  • hug your husband as often as you can.
  • spend time daily in prayer.

The list could go on – but these are some I had written down right away. Hope they make you laugh or come in handy! 🙂

An update on Bennett – at his 2 week check-up he weighed 9 lbs. 6 oz. He is a big boy! He was born at 8 lbs. 2 oz. and when we left the hospital he was 7 lbs. 13 oz. He has more than passed his weight requirement! He sure doesn’t seem like he’s such a big boy but he’s really strong already and quite the little wiggle worm. Such a different body type than Logan. I’m hoping for a chunky baby 🙂

We did find out, however, that his urine test came back positive for CMV. It was quite a shocker. We don’t know what this means – just more tests, bloodwork, and further tests as he grows. He went in today for lab work and they drew a bunch of blood for various tests. Then at 6 months they will re-check his hearing (which he passed in the hospital) and also check his eyes. So far the initial tests are all really positive. It just turns into another waiting game as sometimes CMV can produce symptoms in toddlers – all of a sudden your 3-year-0ld can start to loose hearing as a result of CMV- so we’re just praying for healing and protection from any of that!

Life in the Senske household is crazy but fun! We are heading up north for Memorial Wknd and I honestly can’t wait to spend time with my parents, siblings, and wake up every morning to the beautiful lake and green grass. Ahhh, heaven! We are pretty excited. Happy Weekend!

I took these today…

look at that little man!


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2 responses to “A Mom of Two.

  1. Great List! Have a wonderful weekend up north and enjoy your family.

    I have no idea what life without two little ones is like, but I know the one I have is crazy too…but SO much fun and worth it!

  2. Angela

    Just read the update! It was so good to see you this weekend; i miss you! Your family will continue to be in our prayers for protection again CMV symptoms.

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